I was honored to have the opportunity to give the eulogy at my mom's funeral...
On behalf of my family, I would
like to begin by thanking everyone who has come today and for those who have
sent their condolences. We have felt an
outpouring of love through countless phone calls, texts, emails, meals and
visits. Each has reminded us of the
impact my mom has had on others during her life. We are especially grateful for those who have
loved and cared for our mom throughout her life. We are also grateful for your prayers which
have provided much comfort and peace.
My sweet mother, Linda Christine
Julien was born in Santa Ana, California on December, 23 1951 the year that “I
Love Lucy” first premiered, Disney debuted the film Alice in Wonderland and you
could buy a gallon of gas for 19 cents.
Although I don’t know much about
her childhood, I know that she loved her parents Barbara and Corky her 2
sisters Bobbie and Betty and her favorite grandma Clarice whom she adored. Growing up in Orange County, California she loved
going to Disneyland and the beach.
Mom was very intelligent, an
excellent student and very involved at school.
During high school she was in the varsity singing group, was a senior
class officer and was named female athlete of the year. She was a vibrant, popular, beautiful young
woman. Early in her teenage years my mom
was introduced to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. My mom grew to love the church and as a
non-member, served as seminary class president.
One of the missionaries that taught
my mom about the church was an Elder from Colorado, my dad. After returning home from his mission my dad received
a letter from my mom informing him that she had decided to be baptized. They became pen pals which sparked the
beginning of one of the most beautiful love stories of all time. A few letters and a few dates later they were
married in the Salt Lake Temple on January 30, 1970.
After their wedding, Mom attended
BYU for a short time and then transferred to the University of Nevada. In less than 4 years she earned a bachelor of
science with distinction in elementary education with a minor in music while
raising 3 tiny children David, Jenny, and me.
She was also an incredible support to my dad as he attended medical
school and throughout his residency during which time they welcomed 2 more
children, Tara and Julie. Their 6th
and final child was a Mother’s Day surprise.
By that I mean that one Mother’s Day, to my surprise, my parents showed
up at the house with a brand-new baby girl that they eventually adopted and aptly
named Angela (their little angel).
Mom devoted her life to our family. As with many moms, she spent her time reading
to us, feeding us, cleaning up after us, dancing and singing with us and
driving us to and from all of our various activities. With 6 kids, that itself can be a full-time
job. She also earned her eagle scout, well
not really, but she was very involved in helping David earn all of his scouting
merit badges. She loved us very much and
was very pleased that all 6 of her children were sealed in the temple.
Mom had a love and passion for
music which she instilled in each of us.
She had the voice of an angel and shared her musical talents as a vocal
soloist, in many singing groups and in playing various roles in musicals and
road shows. She directed a stake
bicentennial musical and also helped direct the Oakland Temple Pageant. I’m
pretty sure she was called to serve as ward choir director in every ward we
ever lived in. She had us kids singing
in the choir practically from birth, she volunteered us for special musical
numbers often, and our family trips to Disneyland weren’t complete without
singing songs long and loud in the car.
As many of you know, life got a bit
tougher for my mom in her late 20’s . When
I was 6 years old she was diagnosed with Type 1 Diabetes. Things that had come easy to her before became
difficult and the trivial became a struggle.
I can only imagine how frustrating and depressing it was for her to go
from being so vibrant to feeling sick all the time. Yet she tried to keep a smile on her face and
her smile could light up a room! Due to
her declining health it became more difficult to do a lot of things, like
family trips. However, on one trip we
took to Capital Reef, she somehow found the energy to lead everyone on all the
hikes and we saw a glimpse of the mom we once knew. Although she wasn’t able to go out and
explore the world as much as she probably would have liked, she was able to
find joy and contentment in small things.
She was an avid reader, a Star Wars junkie, had many favorite tv shows,
and loved going to movies when she felt up to it. During these years she became a grandmother
and loved spending time with her 19 grandkids and 2 great grandchildren.
While mom certainly drew the short
straw when it came to her physical health, she hit the jackpot when she married
dad. I have never known a husband who has
loved and cared for his wife as beautifully as my dad has cared for my
mom. I think Heavenly Father was aware
that mom would need someone special.
Someone full of charity who would devote his life to her happiness. Whatever she wanted to eat, dad would make it
for her. Whatever she wanted to watch on
tv, dad would watch it with her. He did
the cleaning and cooking and after long days at work, he was often found
rubbing her feet at the end of the day. Thank you, dad for selflessly losing
yourself in the service of our mom. Of
course, mom was also madly in love with dad.
He was her best friend. She
always wanted him near.
Mom’s long fight with diabetes and
all the complications that went along with it ended peacefully on Friday
afternoon. While surrounded by many who
love her, she passed on to a better life.
God be thanked for the matchless gift of his divine son Jesus Christ who
overcame death that we might be with our mom again. I am so excited that she will now be able to
do all the things she wasn’t able to do in this life. I am sure that she is watching over us and
singing with the choirs of angels.
Mom, we will miss you but you will
always live on in our hearts. Love you
forever!